Nation: The one thing that is coming out from the Duke rape case closure and Imus fiasco are the type of responses from people to self-centered and in their own echo chamber of like-minded people. The condescending white liberals, white guilt syndrome, so-called black leaders/politicians making idiots out of themselves that you wouldn't believe it if you didn't see it with your own eyes.
Here you have Terry Moran who finds this sympathy towards the Duke boys just a bit too much for his liberal tastes. After all they are
rich white boys.But perhaps the outpouring of sympathy for Reade Seligman, Collin Finnerty and David Evans is just a bit misplaced. They got special treatment in the justice system--both negative and positive. The conduct of the lacrosse team of which they were members was not admirable on the night of the incident, to say the least. And there are so many other victims of prosecutorial misconduct in this country who never get the high-priced legal representation and the high-profile, high-minded vindication that it strikes me as just a bit unseemly to heap praise and sympathy on these particular men.
So as we rightly cover the vindication of these young men and focus on the genuine ordeal they have endured, let us also remember a few other things:
They were part of a team that collected $800 to purchase the time of two strippers.
Their team specifically requested at least one white stripper.
During the incident, racial epithets were hurled at the strippers.
Colin Finnerty was charged with assault in Washington, DC, in 2005.
The young men were able to retain a battery of top-flight attorneys, investigators and media strategists.
As students of Duke University or other elite institutions, these young men will get on with their privileged lives. There is a very large cushion under them--the one that softens the blows of life for most of those who go to Duke or similar places, and have connections through family, friends and school to all kinds of prospects for success. They are very differently situated in life from, say, the young women of the Rutgers University women's basketball team. |
There will be no way in this or any lifetime I would ever try to put being called nappy headed hos and falsely accused of rape in the same universe. They were put thru a year of vicious media coverage that ripped into them, their families and their lives as if to say those whiteys got what's coming to them. Thankfully they were able to hire a bunch of well paid lawyers and I hope anyone falsely accused of rape could defend themselves just as well. I don't begrudged them or feel the rest of their lives will be all great.
But to brush aside the sympathy these guys are getting as misplaced because in your liberal mind they are rich white boys is beyond reprehesible. It also calls into question your journalistic reporting if this is the type of attitude you bring to the table. As for the Rutgers team, if any of them are truly crushed by an old man talking on the radio, then they are not going to make it in the world which can be far more vicious.
Next up Al Roker who all of a sudden is a power broker in the entire
NBC organization.I am proud of the courage our president of NBC News, Steve Capus, has shown in making this difficult decision. I'm gratified by the hundreds of e-mails I've received thanking me for my stance. And I appreciated the other hundreds of e-mails I got that were less than complimentary. Why?
A line has been drawn as to what is acceptable and what will not be tolerated. A dialog has been started about race in our country. An opportunity has been created to start holding responsible those who produce and broadcast offensive music lyrics, both rap and rock, that denigrate and marginalize women.
We can use this time to really look at ourselves and dig deep to create a world that our children will be proud to inherit. Diversity, inclusion and acceptance are great goals to strive for.
For all those who think this punishment is too harsh, consider having to explain to your daughter why someone would call a person they didn't know, a "nappy headed ho". And by the way, for all those people who posit that the phrase is rooted in the black community, it is not. My childhood neighborhood of St. Albans, Queens, is a middle-class neighborhood. People keep their homes neat and their lawns mowed. I never heard the word "ho" in my neighborhood or in my parents' home. To this day, when I go back to take my kids to see their grandmother, there aren't young black men on the corner calling women "hos". |
Snoop Dogg says you are
full of it. Just because you grew up in a nice area doesn't mean the phrase nappy, headed, and/or hos didn't start or become popular in a certain segment of the black community as Snoop Dogg so eagerly points out. This is Al showing his age/ignorance or ass. You decide.
Then we get to my most hated sport host Stuart Scott who brings this bizzare explanation on black people using
the term ho.On ESPN Radio's Mike & Mike in the Morning show, guest Stuart Scott discussed the Don Imus controversy. Hosts Mike Greenberg and Mike Golic asked Scott whether it's fair for Imus to be in so much trouble for calling the Rutgers women's basketball team "nappy-headed hos" when rap lyrics frequently use such language. Scott's response was bizarre, to say the least. He said rappers who use those words "mean it in an affectionate way." Huh? It's affectionate to call a woman a ho?
According to his Wikipedia entry, Scott has a wife and two daughters. I'd love to know what context there is in which Scott would consider it "affectionate" to hear a man call his wife and daughters hos.To their credit, Greenberg and Golic both indicated that they didn't buy Scott's rationalization. It's always wrong for a man to call a woman a ho, and for Scott to suggest otherwise is insulting.UPDATE: If you have an ESPN.com Insider account, you can listen to the interview. The relevant passage comes at about the 10:20 mark, when Scott says,
"Here's the thing: There are some people who can use the n-word, who can use those words like b---- and, and the things that Imus said, and they mean it in an affectionate way. It's one of the ideas of taking something that's negative, so bad, so ugly, and making it a positive. I'm going to take the power out of that word and make it a positive. If a white person says it, he's not really doing it." |
I refer to Snoop Dogg who would point out that Stuart Scott is full of it and falls into that rapper defense of saying nigga is all about love for another black person. Negro please. This is the sort of double speak that proves your stupidity in thinking a horrible word becomes a positive message only if a black person says it.
The term ho is ho for a reason. People use words to describe certain traits or the appearance of someone.
Here is a test for Stuart, go call the Rutgers team next season during the highlights nappy headed hos and see how far you get with that explanation.